Messages from Dave’s Friends and Family
One year memoriam written by Dave’s mom, Marilyn Castles:
We know you’re with us because you let us know you’re not far away.
You were the baby, the youngest in our family & yet God took you to do bigger & better things. You left us with a lot of memories of the good & happy times we shared. We will always remember!
You showed us all of Maui. The beauty is hard to explain.
You also left us with your wife, Lena & your daughter, Sierra, who has so much talent; something you gave her for us to enjoy!
You touched so many lives in the short time you were here. A year has gone by & we will always remember the good & happy times we shared together as a family.
You are deeply and sadly missed!
Love, Hugs & Kisses Always,
Your Family
One year memoriam written by Dave’s wife, Lena Castles:
It has been one year since we lost Dave.
Through this heartbreaking loss, I have learned that I have strength within me that I didn’t know I had. I have learned that the saying “time heals” really means that you learn to deal with the loss…..however the ache in your heart remains. I have learned to ask for help and know the value of support from family and friends.
Dave had such a positive effect on so many people….not just here on Maui, but wherever his business travels took him on the mainland. His sense of humor, wit, and charm left a lasting impression on everyone…even those who met him just once. His brilliance in sales, marketing and business management benefited many…yesterday and today.
Dave absolutely loved his family. Who had a dozen photos in his wallet to show to complete strangers wherever he went? Dave Castles. Who took his camcorder to work and made co-workers watch home movies of his daughter? Dave Castles. He would talk about his family to anyone and everyone, everywhere. When he introduced me to someone he knew, they would always say to me, “I feel like I already know you.”
I am very fortunate to have met Dave. The 11 years I spent with him is priceless and no one can take that away from me. No one could have been a better husband to me and a better daddy to our little Sierra. I am a better person because I had Dave Castles in my life.
In honor of Dave, I am writing a book of short stories opening with my story about him. If you would like to share your story about a loved one you lost, please feel free to contact me. Don’t worry if you’re not a writer…..all you need to do is tell your story. I believe this is a great way to memorialize your loved one and also help others who are dealing with a loss. Feel free to contact me, Lena Nakamura Castles, via email through www.DavidCastles.com.
Life is precious. Live it to the fullest.
We love you, Dave…..always & forever.
I was always proud to be Dave’s friend. He made a lot of great memories, laughs and experiences for me that are never forgotten and always appreciated…….somehow Dave always understood me and we always had a close relationship to talk about anything and everything. Dave was... and will always remain a bright and shining person in my life. Someone you could always look up to. Someone that any guy would wish was his real brother. He was and always remains special to me.
David Simonson
Kihei, HI
Dave was an incredible man, vibrant, confident, witty, personable...He was a loving father, husband, son and brother...To be in his "inner circle" was a treat and I considered it an honor to have him as a friend.
You see Dave transformed my life. He aided in giving me the first position as Internet Manager at MDS, a position that would be the impetus to begin Maui Travel Services. Dave believed in me, more than I did myself at the time. He encouraged me and mentored me and believed I could create a new business entity from nothing. And together, we did. He was also responsible for helping me gain access to many of the vendors we currently use with MTS. Without his assistance, MTS may never have come to fruition.
And so it is with incredible sadness I say goodbye to Dave, whose life was cut too short into its prime. I will be forever saddened never to hear you say to me "Who's your Buddy?" or lovingly call your wife Lena, "Lee-nar" (in his thick Boston accent). I am so thankful to have recently spent time with you and that I was able to tell you again how much I appreciate all you have done for me. GOD bless you Dave, for all the wonderful things you brought to my life, you will be forever loved and forever missed.
Sylvia Mayon
Maui Travel Services
Greensboro, NC
I have to say, when I reflect on how my life is richer having known David, it is because David seemed to embrace life with a passion that few people have. For David, living life to its fullest was not a cliché, you often hear used on other people. I feel fortunate to have known him and he lives on in people’s mind and hearts.
Nick Lucey
Savannah, GA
Hello Lena,
I hope that you and Sierra had a merry Christmas with your family. I imagine it must have been difficult without David. I know when my mother passed away, I felt that I was somehow dishonoring her if I were to smile or feel happiness on holidays like Thanksgiving or Christmas. She was the matriarch of our family and all of us would travel to her house for a wonderful turkey or ham dinner for these two holidays. How can I feel happy? I thought to myself. I would feel sick over it. But then I realized that she was not coming back and I should enjoy even more the family and friends that are here. I also felt that maybe I had a responsibility to her to continue the tradition and to have these holidays at my house. I have done that for the past couple of years and my wife, my kids and my family have enjoyed a chance to get together. Very often my mothers name will come up and we will enjoy many of the great memories that we had with her. What once was hard for us to tal!
k about is now something that we all look forward to. I very much enjoy my family sharing with Alyssa and Nicholas these stories so that they can hear what a wonderful person she was.
I hope that over the next couple of years that you, your family, David's family and friends can talk openly about David and remember what an exciting and wonderful person he was. Remind people to take the time and share with Sierra all the wonderful memories that we've all had the good fortune to have shared with him.
In closing, I hope you can find joy in what are supposed to be happy times, which I'm sure you find to be the most diffuclut. David lived his life to the fullest and I'm sure he would want you two to follow in his footsteps.
We loved him and miss him but won't ever forget him (if we did I'm sure he'd come back to haunt us).
I think about you two all the time.
Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!
Love, Eric Brooks
Derry, NH
I just read your Christmas card and wanted to send you a reply back. I just lost my mom on December 8, 2006, she was 83 yrs old and I know what your feeling. Our family has put in the Maui News a few Memory clippings of her because she meant so much to her family and friends.
Anyway, when Dave passed away some of us Janis Nakamoto and I went to your website and read about Dave and his family. It was so touching..we cried...even now....its so touching to read your card. It is beautiful what you are doing to keep him alive in your hearts. Thank you for sharing. Will write when time permits. My sister, sends me alot of email of scriptures reflecting our love for our mom -- Mary Ann Enos. I will send you a picture and message of her sometime.
Much aloha and love.
Your friend,
Sheryl Takabayashi
Makawao, HI
I just wanted to let you know I was thinking of you. I loved the Christmas card you sent. I think of you a lot and hope you are ok. David loved you and was blessed to have you in his life and to have had a beautiful child while he was here. Know that you are thought about and loved.
"Chrissy", Christine Russell
Long Island, NY
Hi Lena and Sierra,
I woke up this morning, and it's snowing outside. So I stayed home, and went through my older mail, and came upon the picture of you both with Dave. I just wanted to let you know that I think of him often. And miss him a lot.
He was such a good friend. Always there when I needed anything, or even when I didn't need anything, he was an inspiration by helping others. Dave had such a giant heart, and loved the people around him so much. Most of all, he would light up every time he spoke of you both, you two are his pride and joy to the fullest. He was so happy when he spoke of you, and proud of all the things he could be as a wonderful husband and father. I remember how proud he was when he discovered Sierra was a computer genious at a very young age. Or that Lena kicks butt at tennis.
He was a lot of fun. I remember when my friends and famiy would visit; the first thing from Dave's mouth would be, do you need anything? Do they want to go snorkeling or go on a sunset cruise? He always went way beyond for his friends.
He touched many lives, and you are right, he will never ever be forgotten, but lives everyday onwards in the fond memories, unforgettable laughter, many acts of kindness.
I wish you two the best, and know that Dave is with you everyday.
With love,
Minti Sloan
Golden, CO and Maui, HI
I love and miss you and Sierra and know that David is like the eagle or hawk that soars watching all that he loved. He will protect and guard us. The indians believed when someone special passes they were around to take care of the others who were left behind until it was their time. We hope this new year will guide you to new adventures. We are with you always, Lynn and Rick OXOXOXO
Lynn Rhodes
Big Bear City, CA
Just a line to let you know we still think of Dave, and look at the slide show now and again.
Larry & Sandy Viens
Methuen, MA
I just found this website and am deeply saddened for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you, your daughter and all our your family members.
Regards,
Julie Matull
Show Freight Industries
Lake Elsinore, CA
My name is Vicki. I worked with Dave at Activities 4 Less. In all my years in the timeshare industry, he was a breath of fresh air. He was fair, open, honest and a pleasure to know.
I wrote you a letter right after he died, but did not send it. I drive past the [site] daily to go to my job. I cannot pass there without feeling and appreciating your grief. I feel so sad for both you and Sierra. We met a few times at the Kalama location. I wish you and Sierra the best and if there is ever anything I can do, please let me know. I lost my father when I was young and my thoughts go out to your daughter. Is she coping? I suppose she doesn't have a choice, huh? I love that you keep his spirit alive at the tree. Little picket fence lately and big flower. I know she misses her dad. Just wanted you to know that I think of both of you daily. Incidentally, I went to my hometown of Kansas City in Sept, and ran into a guy who worked with Dave. It came up because my brother said I was from Maui. I don't think he believed me [when I told him of Dave’s passing]. He was really sad. I think he worked with him at MDS? Anyway, very small world. Please be well. Feel free to call me or email me if you would like.
Lena, Dave always made it very clear to everyone how much he loved you and Sierra. I am always wishing you well. You were blessed to have him.
Vicki Jack
Kihei, HI
Lena,
I am so sorry to hear about Dave’s passing. Please know that you, Sierra and all of Dave’s loved ones are in our prayers. Dave was certainly right, life is so precious. What a blessing he was able to understand that and give himself fully; to you, Sierra and his entire community.
I am still grateful to both you and Dave for giving Show Freight the opportunity to serve Ocean Sports Expo, especially when it was the first show.
Please keep in touch,
Carmen Otwell
Show Freight Industries
Lake Elsinore, CA
Dear Lena and family, While cycling on Maui last month, I stopped to read the memorial to your husband Dave. Even tho I did not know him, I felt a sadness for you and your family. May it be a little comfort to you that strangers share your pain and loss. Your husband was 1 week younger than my son! With my deepest sympathy to you in the loss of your husband.
From one who cares,
Anne M
Calgary, AB
I am writing to you because I just watched The Five People You Meet In Heaven tonight, and I stumbled upon your Amazon review. I am so sorry for your loss, and I hope it gives you comfort to know that your husband David is waiting for you on your version of the ferris wheel. I recently saw Conversations with God and began reading that book. You may get something from those. I think the site you all have put together is awesome and I hope it gives you some pleasure, and some peace. Remember life ends, but love never does.
Richard P
New York, NY
Dear Lena, Your website for your husband is so beautiful. I can't even imagine losing my husband. Im so glad that you have loving family and friends to be with you during this time of grief. Thank you for sharing your photos in such a beautiful manner. May God be with you.
Paula W
Willows, CA
Hi Lena,this is a beautiful website, What a wonderful memory of your husband. It sounds like he was a very special man.
Tammy R
Laconia, NH
BEAUTIFUL!!! Very, very touching and free. I feel a kindred spirit there. Thanks for sharing.
Penny B.P.
MT
Dear Lena,
I have wanted to write for some time to offer my condolences for Dave's unexpected and untimely death.
I only knew Dave briefly, having spoken on the phone and later meeting at the Ocean Expo in Honolulu, but I was very impressed with his good nature, generosity, marketing saavy and business acumen. I remember thinking that Dave was the kind of talented, stand-up guy that I would love to have working in my company. I never got to have that conversation with Dave.
My deepest sympathies to you, your child and the rest of your families. It is terrible to lose such a special person, especially so young. I hope you are doing OK.
Aloha,
Mark Tracy
Valley Isle Marine Center
Wailuku, HI
I just watched a video I shot when I was last on Maui, David and I did an ATV tour up on Ulupalakua ranch. It was a great day…….and I enjoyed spending time with him catching up on old times and new times.
I really thought the world of David. I have never known anyone who could stay above the fray so well. In the beginning, I was wary of his smoothness - for lack of a better word, but in the long run I realized that he really didn’t have a hidden agenda - it was all out front - he said what he meant and didn’t hold back anything. He just wanted what was right and good. That was a very refreshing trait. If he wanted anything from me, I think it was just that he wanted to feel appreciated or respected. And I did. He had great energy, an upbeat personality and if there was ever someone that I wanted to emulate - as far as personal confidence goes, it was him. He would just move streadily towards whatever he wanted and things always seemed to go his way - maybe not always, but for the most part.
I did a fantastic dive trip to the Galapagos Islands a couple of years ago and he was kind enough to use his discount for me to buy a new set of gear for the trip as mine was all old and out of date. It made the trip that much better and I really appreciated the gesture on his part.
I haven’t spoken to him in awhile - maybe since around Christmas or New Years but I have been trying to find time to get away to Maui this Fall and had been thinking about getting back in touch recently to let him know of my plans.
I took for granted that he would always be there - at the other end of the phone if I called, or a call from him out of the blue to see what was up with me - or available to get together if I came to town. I will truly miss him - I already do.
I am so sorry that you and your daughter have to go through this. I know he loved you and I saw him on the phone with your daughter when we we at dinner in Houston and could see the joy she brought him.
If I knew a way to make it easier for you, I would. The only thing I know from my own experience is that you can love him forever if you want, The temptation is to shut something down inside you in order to move on. But you don’t have to. I still love everyone I’ve ever loved and that serves me well.
You met and married a really good guy, Lena. Thank you for calling me to let me know what happened. That takes a lot of courage but I know he had a lot of friends and I consider myself fortunate for having been one of them. I wish the best for you.
Jonathan Good
Conroe, Texas
Hi Lena,
Just want to let you know how saddened I am for your loss. Dave was a special friend to me and I will miss him, dearly. I'm sorry I never had a chance to meet you and I wish I could be there to give you a big hug. I can't even imagine you are checking email. I know you must be busy with everything happening in your life. Wish I could be there to help in some way or make all this not be true. Please know that you and Sierra are in my every prayer. Dave will be missed in so many of our lives and this world will never be the same without his smile, his life, and positive attitude.
Michelle from Continental Airlines
Aloha Lena,
I know my words can never replace what you and Sierra have lost. I hope in time the loss will heal and Dave's love will overcome.
Dave meant so much to me, he was my mentor and big brother. I only knew Dave for three short years, but I felt like I knew him my whole life. I grew up in a tight family and my big brother was my best friend much like Dave and his brother. I was the youngest child of four, and also the brat of the family. My family still lives on the mainland and I miss them terribly. Dave was the first friend that made me feel like I was home. Whether we were having lunch or playing golf it was always the best time.
The words I heard tonight were everything I felt about Dave and more. He really was the brightest star in a sea of stars.
I want you to know if you ever need anything please call. Dave has helped me so much, I will never be able to repay him. Please call or email if you need anything. Love and deepest sympathy,
Dennis Preussler
Ulalena, Maui Theatre
Lahaina, HI
We are so sorry to hear of your loss. We regret we are not in Maui to give our support in person. Please know that you are in our prayers and thoughts daily. Please let Sierra know Gianna sends her love, hugs and kisses.
Love from the Riopta Family!!!
Gianna, Giordyn, Gerry and Melissa
Kihei, HI
Hi Lena,
We just read the sad news about David in Dive Newswire this morning. We tried to call you but none of the numbers I have seem to work. We just wanted you and Sierra know how shocked and how sorry we were to hear it. Although time won't erase your loss it will allow you to remember more easily the time you had together. Please know we are thinking of you and consider ourselves fortunate to have known David. Best personal regards,
Gene & Sara
Seaspace
Houston, TX
Aloha Lena and Little Sierra
LENA I think about a Man that is too brilliant to have this happen to him and a beautifull family like yourself and little Sierra, I think about this every moment that I am breathing, again I think about our k.f.c. dinner on the beach the last time we went diving, and played catch. I think about many awesome times that I had with Dave. What made Dave stand out to me, is that he always had a relaxed outlook on life and that is one of the reasons I looked up to him as a friend and a positive figure in my life, he was and will always be a leader to me.
Many things on this planet are taken for granted, I have been asking myself why like this, why is this the way it has to be? offcourse I have no answer, BUT JUST BECAUSE OF YOU I RESPECT AND LOVE EVERY DAY THAT I HAVE LEFT. I am a spiritual person and I am giving all my energy and thoughts to You and Little Sierra every day and every night.
I love you guys and I thank you.
Olivier Saquet
Wailuku, HI
Lena,
So sorry to hear about David, he was a wonderful person, I will pray for you, your daughter and Davids' family. He will be missed very much by all who knew him. With Sympathy,
Rhoda LaTorre
MA
Hi Lena & Sierra,
You have my deepest sympathy and love and prayers going out to the both of you. I will truly miss David as he was a wonderful friend and person. I will see you both soon and until then take care and remember a lot of people are thinking of you both. Love,
Linda DelPozzo
Methuen, MA
In Memory of Dave,
The smallest gift of friendship is more precious than the greatest treasures of the world. Dave was a lot of fun and will sadly be missed.
Theresa Kalil
Big Island Pond, NH
Lena,
We are all so sorry to hear about David's untimely passing. Dana and I are praying that God will comfort you and the family in the time ahead. Dave was so full of life and everyone he touched was better for it. He will be missed by everyone. Please accept our prayers and warm wishes for comfort, peace and healing. If there is anything I can help you with, please let me know. We love you. God bless.
Dana Polites and Gene Muchanski
Dive Industry Assn.
League City, TX
Aloha Lena,
Met and worked with Dave as I am from Tihati Production Luaus. I have just heard and am stunned and shocked. He was a wonderful person inside and out. Always willing to help, kind hearted. Please accept my deepest sympathy for your loss and my God watch over you and your little one always.
Tanya Kawai-Bruckner
HI
My deepest sympathy to you and your daughter. I just read your memoriam in the Maui News yes, "Life is Precious" I use to work for Maui Down Hill Bicycle tours & safaris. Dave use to work for Maui Dive Shop & use to book tours with us. He was an AWESOME person. I’m glad I got to meet him. Take care and God bless you & your family.
Barbara Kim-Cugal
Wailuku, HI
Although it has been a while since I've seen David's smile...I am with broken heart to know that he is gone. I remember all the great times I was able to share with David and his family, who graciously and lovingly accepted me into their hearts, their homes and their shared good times as a family. It meant the world to me. I am blessed to have a best friend like Cathy....and blessed to have had the opportunity to know and love David. He will forever be in my heart. I am truly sorry for your loss.
Valerie Ann Tuminowski
Lakewood, CO
Lena and Sierra,
I'm so sorry about the lost of your husband and daddy. I pray for you both that you will have the strength to get through each and every day. I know that Dave will always be in your hearts and will always be watching over the two of you. My mom and dad Eddie and Eleanor Morioka went to see the both of you and I wished so much that I could have gone with them. My husband Gregg and I send to you our deepest sympathy. Please take care and I hope that we will get to see you one day soon.
All our love,
Shari Morioka Karonis
Kahului, HI
Lena, (Mrs. Castles)
You and I have never met, yet tragically, we have a lot in common. I too lost my husband Mark in a horrific car accident on June 18, 2001. We were only married 6 months when he passed away. As part of my healing, I moved to Maui (from Northern California) this past April and when I read about your loss it brought back everything I felt and feel every single day of my life. ……if you ever have any questions or need anything, please e-mail me or call me anytime…….I think we can help each other!
Best Regards and My Deepest Sympathy,
Kim H.
Kihei, HI
I am very sorry for your loss. dave was a childhood friend. i went to holy trinity grammer school with him from K -8th grade. And when I would occasionally run into him years later we would talk about our old times as kids. he was a great person and even though we lost
John Tarshi
Andover, MA
Dear Lena and Sierra,
What a beautiful tribute to Dave. I will always remember the words spoken at the funeral and the awesome video presentation. I know Dave was so proud and thankful. I always think about the two of you and wish you much comfort as you deal with the pain of losing someone so dear to you. I know that if my mom were here today, she would send all her love to both of you, too. Take care and please keep in contact.
Claire Ching
Wailuku, HI
Dear Lena,
Sorry to hear of the loss of your beloved husband David. I'm a very good friend of his mom & dad. His father Jim & I worked at ATT in North Andover until Jim joined the Police Dept. & I went on the Fire Dept. I remember David & all his sisters & brother since they were youngsters. May he rest in peace.
Thomas P Petzy
DeBary, FL
Aloha Lena,
I was stunned to hear of your recent loss. David was an exeptionally decent man that I had the privilege of knowing as an agent for activities 4 less.
There is no way to express my sorrow for Daves passing. He made a great impression on me and I pray that God continues to bless you with the strength to press on.
Best wishes to you and your family always.
David Mercer
Kihei, HI
My heart and thoughts are with you and Sierra and I know that he will continue to look out for you both. He will be around us all forever and I know he had an affect on my life and that I am a better person knowing him. I respected Dave and I am sure that we will all have another chance to enjoy that warm feeling that was in the room whenever he was around. Please stay in touch and know that you both have a place in Texas.
All my strength goes to you and Sierra
with Love in my heart for you both, Randy
Randy Harris
Kemp, TX
I would first like to say that I am very sorry for your loss. I wish you and your daughter all the best. I worked with Dave for a year, and for the short of time I knew him I grew to like him a lot. He would always be kidding around all the time. Everytime we would have problems with our computer he would always tell us, "99.9% it is always user error". He would always talk about you or your daughter. How she chose to put the heart on his phone. When you went to get your eyes lasered and he asked the doctor if you would still think he was pretty, after. He was such a clown, and could always brighten our day at the office. I'm sure you've heard it from everyone and you already know, what a great person he was and I will never forget him or his name. I must tell you that ever since his death I look at my family with so much love and more so never take them for granted cause you may never know. My prayers are with you and your family.
Love & Aloha Jeri
Jerilyn Sumibcay
Lahaina, HI
Lena ~ I just found your 'In Loving' program from the service and read it for first time. Although I must have looked at a 1000 times during the service, I could not see any of the words for his larger than life picture. "Quote" If your not living life on the edge, then your taking up too much room" he lived life more than anyone I have ever known, I will miss him dearly and am always here for you.
Brian Lynx
Starwood Hotels
Marina Del Ray, CA
Aloha Lena,
…..know that David has found a place better than where we are, and that we will be re-united with him when our time comes.
Ron Martin
Honolulu, HI
Lena,
David was always very kind to me whenever our paths would cross. One morning in front of the dive shop, my children and I had made many dive gear purchases after taking classes and I had stopped by to pick up something I ordered. Dave had just gotten out of his car to go up to the office. When he saw me, he waved, flashed his great smile and asked me to wait a minute, he had something for me. He opened the back and took out a very beautiful nautilus shell he said he'd gotten in the Caribbean many years ago. (I am a marine educator at Maui Ocean Center) He said he knew I'd love to have it and he wanted me to take the shell. I was happy to do so.
Even though you must feel very lost and deeply sad, he has not truly left you Lena. As long as you think of him, talk about him with Sierra and family, he will always stay with you. I'm sure he is watching over you and your daughter.
With love and support,
Katie
Katie Grove-Velasquez
Kihei, HI
Hello Lena,
I hope you remember me..I went to BHS with you. I actually saw you last week walking out of Walmart with another woman. I was waiting in my car for my daughter. And I was thinking..she hasn't aged 1 day since high school... she must be happy... and those were my exact thoughts for you. I am so sorry to hear about your hubby. I can't even image the pain. You have a beautiful daughter and lots of family I can see. I hope the best for you and her truly. It will be ok. My prayers are with you and you family. God bless!
Cathy
As posted on www.diversdowntv.com:
David Castles – 'Remembered Fondly'
I was stunned by the recent news of the sudden death of David Castles, a man full of life, energy, and encouragement. It was at Beneath The Sea in NJ in 2003 when I first had the pleasure of meeting David. Making the rounds of the many booths there in search of new prospects to share in the exposure we offer here at Divers Down Television, I happened across his Maui Dive Shop booth.
In very short order we struck up a friendly and quite positive discussion, each of us curious about what the other could offer to mutual benefit. It was obvious that David was more than just a little passionate about Hawaii and the underwater offerings there. In subsequent followup phone calls and emails to the Islands I was always pleased with the sincerity of Dave's discussion.
Despite the long distance between us geographically, David was also an East Coaster. Hailing part time from Massachusetts and New Hampshire gave Dave a good understanding of the value of our broadcast footprint on NESN. No doubt our national Water Channel position would have bolstered that thought. Though in the end little of concrete substance came of our relationship, I realized David was one of the good guys, a man that I truly respected, one I knew respected me, and that's all one can ask.
I don't know the details, apparently an auto accident was his demise. He leaves behind a wife and daughter from what I can gather on the newslines. Our thoughts and prayers go to them, his extended family, and to the many friends David touched in his far too few years on the planet.
In time he moved on to pursuits beyond MDS, including promoter of the Ocean Sports Expo in HI. Ever enthusiastic, many times Dave helped steer DDTV towards contacts that might one day get us to the Aloha State to produce programming. That has yet to happen, the closest we've come is passing through the Honolulu Airport on our way to other exotic Pacific destinations. But I can assure you that if we ever do have opportunity to stay, it will no doubt be in part thanks to David Castles looking down with approval from above.
“Too bad we never got the chance to dive together friend!”
Think Deep.
Mark Stanton
Executive Producer
Divers Down Television
Halifax, MA
Lena, I was just given this website by Cathy Pellazar. I am so sorry for your loss. It's been so long since I have seen you and I found out about you going through a tough time like this. I've been back on Maui now for a couple months and my time is pretty free. I'm trying to get my business situated and maybe we can go and have some coffee or something and catch up if you want or you can talk and put your head on my shoulders. I'm so sorry again for your loss. My deepest sympathy. Please let me know if I can help you in any way? My daughter can help babysit if you would like as well. Please call me when you are ready for company and we can re-connect as friends again. Take care and god bless you and your family.
Love and Aloha, Laurie
Laurie-Lynn Horst
Wailuku, HI
Dear Marilyn and family,
I am so very, very, sorry to hear about the passing of your son. I remember when you use to bring all the pictures to school showing us your trips to Hawaii and always how very excited you were when you were going out for a visit and how happy you were when you returned from your visits. My heart goes out to you and your family during this difficult time. When I read the paper, a chill came over me, and I felt I just had to let you know I was thinking of you. With deepest sympathy,
Nancy Moon
Marsh Grammar School
Methuen, MA
Lena,
I am a friend of David's from High School. He was a great guy. I had a lot of laughs with him back then. I am very sorry for your loss. I am sure he was the best husband and father anyone could ask for. With great sadness,
Joanne Morgan
Methuen, MA
Lena & Sierra,
Please know you are in my prayers. He was my work friend from MDS long time back.
Sincerely, Pam Ray
Kihei, HI
Dear Lena,
I just want you to know I think of you and your daughter often. My husband worked with Dave for the past couple of months. His death is a shock. Reading the paper this morning I felt compelled to e-mail. Your message is powerful and had been exactly what my husband and I felt Dave would want us all to take from this horrific tradegy.
Life is indeed precious....
I have three children 9, 5 and 3. No matter who we are life is indeed a precious gift to be treasured. If you need a chat or a trip out to Haiku to pick some fruit and play please give me a call anytime. I realize it is early days yet - our door and hearts are open. Please feel welcome at any time.
Yours Sincerely,
Margit Barreras
Haiku, HI
Mrs. Castles, we are so sorry to hear of your loss. We both just met Dave last month in Texas at Randy Harris' wedding and had a great time with him-he is someone that we will always remember. He will be missed dearly. Our thoughts are with you and yours.
Jimmy & Angie (Patterson) Hopkins
Mabank, TX
I learned of David's passing in the Lawrence Eagle Tribune (Aug 23 edition) and was very sorry to hear of it. I first met Dave in Kindergarten at the now closed Holy Trinity School in Lawrence MA.(it closed at the end of this schhol year in June) Dave and I attended schhol there up until we graduated 8th grade in 1982. The school was pretty small so we all got to know each other pretty well. There were only about 25 or so of us in each class. I remember that we always seemed to be in trouble with the Nuns for something. I didn't see Dave as much after 8th grade because we went to different High Schools for 3 yrs but we would always take the time to catch up or hang out when we ran into each other. I remember out last conversation when we saw each other and he was talking about playing vollyball and everthing was great with him. That was probably just before he moved to Hawaii. I remember riding bicycles to his house where he grew up and taking the row boat out on the little pond behind his house and catching frogs. I along with another classmate John Tarshi were just talking about Dave a couple of weeks ago. Dave is a great guy and I feel very badly and my thoughts and prayers are for you and your daughter and the rest of Dave's family.
Michael Pappalard
Methuen, MA
I read your message on the newspaper and it really touched me. I'm sorry to hear of this tragedy and I appreciate your message. Thank You. Take Care and Good Bless You and Your Family.
Aloha, Lily
HI
Dear Lena,
We don't know each other but I wanted to tell you how sorry I am for you and your family. I am Chrissy & Bonnie Russell's cousin & know Dave from New Hampshire. He was a truly wonderful person. Please know that you and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers. Take care of yourself and I wish you well always.
Love, Reenie
Reenie Koehler
NY
Dearest Lena & Sierra,
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Dustie Pagan-Draculan
Wailuku, HI
Mike Hovnanian is my cousin. Our Deepest Thoughts of Love and prayers are with you and the family.
Glen, Jane & Aaron Vetzikian
North Syracuse, NY
Aloha Lena.
I'm not very good at things like this. Usually when I try to pour my heart out it just ends up sounding so lame. I think I can get an idea of how you must feel having lost both my mom and dad recently, but I still can't completely imagine what it must be like losing someone like a soul mate.
All I can say to you now is, I'll be around if you should need me. I'll do what I can to help you through. Although I'm sure you've got more than enough support right now, the offer is there just in case.
In closing, I will say to you that having known him, I will always feel honored as being one of the many lives he has touched and that I will miss him very much.
Yours always in Friendship,
LD Reynolds
Kihei, HI
Lena,
What a shock, what a loss. My heart goes out to you and your family. Richard
Richard Stewart
Ocean Realm Journal, Publisher
New Smyrna Beach, FL
So Sorry for your loss. I am Rob DeNuccio and i grew up with Dave. He was a great friend. One I will always keep in my heart.
Robert
Hi Lena,
No words can convey your loss... I did not know Dave but my condolences are deepfelt. I know the love of your family will sustain you during this difficult time, and for all you may need from them. Looking at the website I see an overwhelming amount of love and support for Dave and for you and Sierra.............. God Bless you always.
Theresa Finch
Kihei, HI
I just wanted to say sorry for your loss. I grew up with David and went to school with him and use to hang around at his house all the time or whenever I got the chance. I know his parents and all of his family so if you could pass this on to them I would appreciate that. I dont have any photos but lots of memories and again I am sorry. Thanks, Wally
Wally Miller
Hudson, NH
Thoughts are with you , I did not know david, though I know jimmy, and I know david must have been a great gentleman. I watched the video and was touched, he seemed to be the best person one could be. So with that, I know it sucks... Life just is not fair! Sometimes it seems like the good die young, just remember he doesnt want you to be sad ,that would make him sad. Take care.
Steve Gillis
Massachusetts
I was stunned this morning when Brian McKay forwarded the news of Dave Castle's passing. I met him in 2003, and only knew the man through dive show interactions, and subsequent followup communications via phone and email. What I quickly came to know was that Dave was a bright light in this industry, and that it was good for all of us to have someone of his quality active in promoting the sport.
Mark Stanton
Executive Producer
Divers Down Television - Halifax, MA
"Hey Jerky, did you lose some weight?" For months, that is what I heard from Dave after losing my weight belt on my first night dive at Molokini Crater. Dave was the one that saw it slip off my waist and he assisted me with the recovery before I floated away! Several months later I had become a divemaster with MDS and Dave was always in support of my development with the company and as a diver. Always a blast to have him on the boats, his laughter would fill the deck and put smiles on everyone's faces. Known as "the man that has all the hookups" and would always come through with the goods (activities). Thanks for everything Dave, I'll miss you greatly! Both you and your beautiful family are in my prayers and intentions.
Much Love and Aloha. Tommy Powers
Tommy Powers
Avon, CO
Lena,
I remember, David. I remember him so long ago having some great times in Derry I remember a strapping young man with the talent to do it all, and do it the best. David was the best at volleyball David was the best at handling that huge boat David was the best at offering to help me - or anyone. David had the best character and he was a first class gentleman. A great role model for my kids and so many others.
I remember David. Perhaps in a different time, but I still remember him as the best.
Sierra should know that her Daddy was the best.
Jim and Diane Voss
Derry, NH
Lena and the Castles Family, My name is Laura and I grew up with Dave on Big Island Pond in Derry. I spent the summers at the lake and new Dave well through our late teens and early 20's before he moved to Hawaii. We all spent many fun times on Dave's party boat and playing volleyball. He was so full of life and always had a smile on his face. He will be missed by all on the "Lake".
I wanted to send you my deepest sympathy in this very difficult time for you and your family. I looked through the pictures that you have on the website and your daughter is just beautiful. I am so sorry for you and wish you healing and love.
Sincerely,
Laura
Laura Coish McLaughlin
Derry, NH
Lena,
We are so sorry for your loss. The memorial slideshow showed all of his love for everyone. He has touched the hearts of many. May you be strong through this. Our thoughts are with you.
Our sincerest condolences,
Steve & Victoria Van Aller
Affordable Furniture & Design
Puunene, HI
Dear Lena
It will be not possible to dissociate the wonderful time we had in Honolulu in Feb with your warm aloha. You gave us the opportunity to come back to Oahu and to enjoy the show and the stay.
I've met Dave twice in speedy meetings in diveshows, too quickly to appreciate the gentleman he was and it was an honor to discover him in Honolulu.
Let Dave swim or fly around us.
With deepest sympathy to you Lena and your family,
Françoise and Pascal
Pascal Lecocq
Cerulean Blue Art
Fl, USA and France
Lena,
I am so sorry to hear about Dave's passing. He was always so kind and generous to me. If there is anything that I can do to assist you in anything please feel free to contact me.
Best wishes……
Marvin Otsuji
Seasport Divers
Kauai, HI
Lena,
Hi. Thank you very much for sharing your pain and life, and also giving me useful information. Even from this website, I can see how much Dave is loved by so many people. He will live in everybody's heart forever.
I know you are very busy, but please take good care of yourself.
I just wanted to say "thank you."
Naomi (next-door neighbor).
Naomi Ishikawa
Kihei, HI
Dive Industry Association, Inc.
Building a Better Industry, One Member at a Time
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Dive Industry News
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Monday, September 4, 2006 - Day 247
Dave Castles Passes Away: One of our beloved Members passed away on August 11th. David Francis Castles died in an automobile accident in Maui, Hawaii. Many of us knew David and participated in his Hawaii Ocean Sports Expo just this past February. David was born on January 4, 1968 in Mathuen, Massachusetts. David is survived by his wife, Lena Nakamura Castles and his beautiful little daughter, Sierra Michiko Castles. Our hearts go out to David’s family and we offer our sympathy and prayers for comfort and healing. Please go to his web site at http://www.davidcastles.com and watch his video. It may be tough for some to watch because it’s filled with heart fond memories of David and his family, but it is so well put together. If you knew David, you’ll appreciate it very much. His web site says it best: David Castles: Forever Loved – Always in our Hearts – Never to be Forgotten. David, we are so going to miss you, always!
The last time I saw Dave was back on March 11, 2005. It was my birthday. He was home visiting family and friends. My brother Eric called me up and asked if I would mind Dave coming along with us to Boston that night, of course I wouldn't mind I would love to have him with us.
It turned out to be a great night. We went out to eat and then went to a club where Dave was the only other person who would go out onto the dance floor. Everybody else watched…….It was so much fun.
I had only been around Dave because of Eric, they were great friends. That night I felt like I was now a friend because of me. Never imagining that, that night would be my last chance. I'm glad that I at least got the opportunity.
Dave was a wonderful, funny, energetic person that always seemed to affect the people around him. He had an infectious laugh and smile that could light up a room. He will be greatly missed and never to be forgotten.
Julie C. Brooks
East Hampstead, NH
Good friends are hard to come by. It is even harder to lose them unexpectedly. There is no making sense of it. I had the privilege of knowing and working with Dave for many years and considered him to be a good friend. In many ways, he was surprising ... and he mede me laugh because of that. He would tell me of a plan he had come up with and I would think, "Ok, good for you if you can pull it off...". And the funny thing is that he would pull it off ... against all odds, and against my doubt ... and I could only laugh and acknowledge his success to him. After awhile I learned not to doubt him. His confidence knew no bounds and it gave him success that I wouldn't have imagined. Here was a guy who made things go right simply through the force of his good nature, generosity and his spirit. Very unusual. Dave made things better ... he left things in better shape than he found them in and lightened up day of the people he talked to.
I wanted to share some story in this space, some part of my mental video of a specific time that could epitomize who he was - maybe a conversation at a restaurant - maybe diving, maybe sitting on an ATV in Ulupalakua contemplating the view .... but the fact is that it has all melted together now and there is nothing specific I can tell except here was a guy with a good spirit. A person you hope to know and hang out with and are happy to call a friend. You can see it in the pictures. The solace I take now is in knowing that Dave was a good man who led a good life, surrounded by good people, a wonderful wife and a beautiful daughter and he did the things he wanted to do. He did things well and he did things right. I can only hope people could say the same thing at the end of my time, whenever it comes. I can only hope to have the same positive impact on people that Dave did.
So I offer my respect and appreciation for a good and generous friend. I salute you, Dave for your life and for your spirit. You are missed.
Jonathan Good
Houston, TX
Lena,
Everyone at FishFlips was shocked and saddened to hear of Dave's passing. Our condolences and best wishes to you, your daughter and your family.
Brandon Cresswell
FishFlips®
Portland, OR
Hello, Lena.
Robby and I came back from the summer tour and received a card from you. Thank you so much for thinking about us. We were very shocked to hear about the news... So sorry.
6 years ago when we traveled to Maui, it was a big challenge for all of us to scuba dive first time! I remember how patient and fun Dave was, and he made our experience very special. I was just looking at the album from the trip, and I felt like it was not too long ago. We'll miss Dave.
Please take care and stay in touch.
Robby & Miyoko Takac
The Goo Goo Dolls
Los Angeles, CA
I met Dave through business w/ MDS quite a while ago. I flew out there to present my software to the group and got to meet Dave in person. I just wanted to say that I thought he was a wonderful person. He had a huge smile when he showed me the picture that he carried of your daughter. I just wanted to say what you already know..that of all the incredible things that he had done in life he thought of Sierra as his greatest acomplishment.
Karen Page
Big Hairy Dog Computer Software
Happy Valley, OR
DIVE NEWSWIRE Headline
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Well-known figure in the Hawaii dive community passed away suddenly last weekend.
Dave Castles, the promoter of the Ocean Sports Expo and a well-known member of the diving community in Hawaii died suddenly last weekend in Hawaii. Dave was a passionate supporter of diving in Hawaii and around the world and he will be missed.
Said Tommy Daly of DeepAquatix Sales, "Dave Castles was a good man, with a fierce work ethic and an extreme dedication to family and friends. He will be sorely missed especially by those lives he touched through work or through play."
Dive Newswire
Mesa, AZ
Tommy Daly, DeepAquatix
Carlsbad, CA
Hi Lena:
Just a few words to say Hello and hope everything is going as well as expected under the recent loss of your husband.
I keep you in my prayers and hope Sierra is doing well also.
Anita L. Roberts
Madeira Beach, FL
Good Afternoon Lena,
We're so sorry to hear about David. Our thoughts & prayers go out to you & your children during this difficult period. If there's anything we can do to assist you, please don't hesitate to contact us. We will surely miss David but we were very fortunate to have had the pleasure of meeting & working with him on his 1st Hawaii Ocean Expo.
Take care of yourself. We hope to either see or touch bases with you in the near future.
Yours truly,
Jean & Rich
Jean Takaki-Oncog
Richard Olsen
ICES Hawaii
Honolulu, HI
Hello Lena,
Thank you so much for your phone call from Boston I know it could not have been easy but it helped me quite a bit. I have always kind of joked around about the word "closure" until Daves death, now I am here in Alaska far removed from Maui and definitely looking for closure finding it hard to believe Dave is gone. I dont think I will every step on a plane again without thinking of the flight I took with Dave from new orleans to st louis. American airlines seats a shoeless crazy person in the exit row across from Dave and I. Well the rest is history but I am pretty certain I will not laugh that hard the rest of my life hell I might even wear my socks on my hands and pretend I am driving the plane on my flight to Paris this fall! That is just one great memory of years of memories I have of wonderful times with Dave I will really miss him.
Ryan McDonald
Seward, AK
Hey Lena,
I am not going to ask how you are, I just hope that you are taking time to grief, and that the memories of Dave keeps you strong, because I can not even begin to imagine how you feel, like you said in the card, it was great to see you, I wish it had been for a better occasion.
There were many fun memories, I particularly remember Brian and I went over for dinner when Sierra was a baby, and the whole time you were standing by the dinner table holding Sierra because she would not stop crying, that was the first time I learned what a colicky baby means, I told Brian that you are a great mom.
Lena, I am so so sorry for your loss, I find myself at a loss of words as to how terrible I feel, seeing the website brings back so much fond memories of time we had together, I remember the first time I met you, it was on a “booze cruise”, you, Dave, Brian, and I, we had fun, didn’t we. And the time we played tennis at the Kihei tennis court at night, I suck so bad, Brian and Dave were just having fun picking on each other…
And the time when Brian transported the palm tree to your backyard, where he totally just ruined the tree, and how Dave had joked about it, Brian told me that he never replaced that tree, and it is the smallest of them all. Gosh, how he treasures friendship..
If there is anything I can do, please let me know? I mean it, even if it’s just needing to get away with Sierra to Oahu, to the water park or anything, let me know, I will be more than happy to either meet you, find a hotel accommodation, have coffee, girls talk, anything, okay?
Take care of yourself. You and Sierra will be in my thoughts and prayers.
Kelly Lynx
Kapolei, HI
Lena,
I am so sorry for your loss. I am an empolyee at the Closings Department at Sentry Management (Cpress Strand Condo Assn). I am the person who updates account on homeowner's behalf. I received the Certificate of Death and letter explaining your loss. It touched my heart.
I am a wife and mother and I can only imagine how hard it must be to lose someone so dear. With your permission, I viewed the gallery of photos. I was truly touched. Your husband seemed to be a very happy and loving husband and father. I hope the Almight gives you and your beautiful little girl the strength to go on.
Although I do not know you personally, you and your daughter will be in my thoughts and prayers.
Sincerely,
Maggie Naranjo
Magalys Naranjo
Bradenton, FL
Dear Lena and Sierra,
I am so saddened to know that I will not see Dave again here on my tennis court. This is hard for me as I am still grieving, as you know. My heart goes out to both of you and you are always in my thoughts. I know Dave and Tony have already played a game or two! Dave was a wonderful man that everyone thought highly of. Yes, he was larger than life. The wonderful memories help us get through the tough times. I hope to see you one of these days. I miss you.
My love to both of you,
Harriet
Harriet Van Steen
Widow of Tony Van Steen, Tennis Pro
Kihei, HI
What a beautiful idea Lena!
I can't tell you how much you and Sierra have been on my mind since I heard the news over a month ago. Being that I can still get really emotional about it at the drop of a hat, I can't begin to fathom what you two are going through. I am glad to hear that you are giving each other strength dealing with the hardest situation possible! This is a very important skill to have at this time. Know that we are here for you and if there is anything at all we can do, please let us know. This is such a great way to stay connected and start the healing process that will no doubt take a lot of time. This site is amazing and really helped me feel more at peace with everything. I am glad that in my weaker moments, I will be able to go to it and put myself back together so to speak.
Memories of Dave... (by Sharyl Bediamol)
I first met Dave Castles at Maui Dive Shop in Kihei (the main store). I walked in with my best friend Maile - we were both applying to work at MDS the summer of '99. Dave was the friendly man that we first encountered. The three of us chatted a bit - he checked out our resumes and pretty much hired us on the spot. Throughout the training and first weeks in the shop, Dave was the go to guy for us whenever we had any questions. We skipped over our managers and spoke with Dave because after all, one of Dave's remarkable qualities was that he was always there to answer any question or be that go to guy to ask questions about what laptop to purchase, what car to buy or what snorkeling equipment was the greatest. After my brief summer with MDS, I remained in contact with Dave whenever I came home from college during the summer or Christmas break. I would always look forward to giving Dave a random phone call and joke about whether or not he still remembered me. He was one of my top job references... Come on, who wouldn't have listed Dave Castles as one of their references - with a guy that was truly blessed with what we refer to as the 'gift of gab!' I always figured I had an in for any job if they called Dave. Shortly after my return to Maui following college graduation, I ran into Dave and knowing that he had connections for virtually any activity on the island COMP, I expressed my eagerness in trying out Skyline Eco Adventures. Dave hooked this up right away, and before I knew it, I was flying across valleys and flying into the love of my life - literally (Danny - our guide). I'll never forget this day for it truly has been the most special in my life. Danny and I have been together for over a year and a half and have never been happier. We have mentioned several times that our thanks go to Dave for introducing us. One thing that I remember Danny mentioning about Dave is the fact that he would ALWAYS pick up Dave's phone calls. He generally knew it had something to do with Skyline but nevertheless, anytime his caller ID said 'Dave Castles,' he would always answer the call. That's pretty good considering the volume of calls Danny gets a day. There was definitely a strong connection between the two. Dave, I will never forget you - I always looked up to you and I will always remember the good times we all had together.
Love and Aloha,
Sharyl and Danny
Sharyl Bediamol
Kula, HI
Dear Aunty Lena and Sierra,
Im sorry for what happened to Uncle Dave :{. I thank him for taking me snorkling on the boat of Maui Dive Shop and showing me all the great fish that were there. When i did spend time with him i enjoyed it alot, he was really funny. One thing i wish I had done over this past summer was that I should've spent time with him, I am sorry for that. I hope you and Sierra do get better sometime and I wish I had come to Maui and to the funeral with my mom and siblings, I really would have liked to see Uncle Dave one last time.
Love, Dallas
Dallas Brewster Dettloff
Port Orchard, WA
Aloha Lena,
Thanks for letting me share in this moment in your life. I do send my deepest sympathy to you and your family, especially your little girl(she's a CUTIE-PIE). Thank you for letting me send you my message, I'm not sure if you're aware or not, however, I have too lost my best friend, my mom, she was taken to live with our Heavenly Father back in 1994, however, it still feels like yesterday.I too miss her tremendously, however, I do know that she is still around me I just can't see her but I feel her around daily. I know that God has a plan for all of us, we are his children and he would not live us to do on our own, we just need to call on him and he's always there. I did not know your husband at all, however, through this "site" I was able to learn how great a man he was, he seem to have been a person who just light's up the room and he has so much joy in his eyes especially when he's around you and your daughter. Remember all that he was and still is, you have your preci!
ous daughter to help you through all the pain and his legasey lives on within her. You take good care of yourself and your little angel and know that he is still with you both. Thanks again for allowing me to share of part of your so very special moment. Call on me anytime... just to talk or just anything.Aloha for now.
Kimberlye K Rodrigues(Fernandez
Makawao, HI
Dear Lena, my daughter Colleen of Hampton, NH. had just recently forwarded me the message abour your husband David. I am so sorry for your loss, and I will pray for you and the family. I knew your father in-law Jim we grew up together. I met David through Dick Smolog who lives in Methuen. Your father in-law also worked with my brother Joe on the Lawrence Police Department. Your husbands picture reminded me of his father. Some things in life cannot be explained, but please stay close to the heavenly father, he and the Blessed Virgin will guide you everyday of your life.
Jerry Welch
Thomasville, NC
Lena, thank you so much for sharing - David seemed to have a grip on everything in his life and just really conducted himself professional and had a lot of respect from me and probably most everyone he dealt with - you can just tell that about a person- he also had a great sense of humor - which made him very likeable - it's a great loss.
Pamela Strom
Strom & Strom Realtors
Sarasota, Florida
Hi Lena,
Please know that if you EVER need anything, I am here. I know it must be so very hard for both you and Sierra every day. I can't even imagine the pain you are feeling. I still cry when I think of Dave being gone and then I cry even more when I think of how you must be feeling. I am so sorry for your loss. I just hope and I say a prayer to God for Him to help you through to someday when you will be happy again. I wish I could make it better for you.
Love, Jaymie
Jaymie Snow White
Kihei, HI
Dear Lena,
Thank You so much for sharing such wonderful photos of Dave and Sierra and letting me get a glimpse of your wonderful life you shared. It so easy to see what an awesome love that you shared. The pictures are amazing as well as such a blessing that you have them to be able to keep the memory and spirit of Dave alive in your hearts and minds. I hope that you are continuing to find strength through friends and family and the almighty heavenly father. I remember when my husband had to deploy to Iraq for 18 months. One can never prepeare themselves for the pain of being seperated from the ones they love the most. I remember crying alot. You have been blessed by a life with Dave and precious Sierra. I pray that your faith in God and the Holy Spirit will help to heal a grieving heart. I know you miss him so much it hurts but continue to write your poems, post the pictures and keep Dave alive in your heart. He is with you always. His spirit lives on.
I am no longer working at Fairfield but for the short time that I worked there Dave left a lasting impression on me because he was so bright, kind and funny. I still think about Dave and think about you often and wonder how you are doing. My prayers & thoughts will be with you and Sierra.
Lori Arakawa
Lahaina, HI
Lena,
Being in the publishing business for 15 years on maui and working with dave from afar, this was
the first time dave and i worked together. i'll be honest, it was tough the first month working with dave and robert bluh, but as time went by, he gained all my respect, trust, friendship and all he was trying to do was help me. dave accomplished all of the above and i'll never forget your husband for that. i just wished it would have lasted longer. our thoughts and prayers have been with you.
Benjamin, Margit, Blanca, Olas & Martina Barreras
Haiku, HI
Dearest Lena,
Today was all about Dave, he consumed my thoughts and the tears fell from my eyes. I think of you and Sierra everyday, I know the pain a child feels as I lost my father when I was 12, he was my life! I keep a picture of Dave on my desk (It was taken the day before he left us)he was goofing off with the girls at the front desk. Every morning when I enter my office I look at the photo's of my daughters,son and Dave and say a prayer for our families...we will get through this and love is what will hold us together.
You, Dave and Sierra are in my thoughts everyday!!! My family loves you and will always be by your side.
Love, Val and Family
Valerie Kubo
Fairfield Resorts & Activities 4 Less
Wailuku, HI
Aloha My Friend!
I just stopped by to say hello after saying a prayer for you and Sierra. Trust in the Lord and stay strong...Please know that you are thought of often and prayed for sincerely.
With all my love, Sherry Pokaka'a
Sherry Pokakaa
Hawaii Convention Center
Honolulu, HI
I think of my buddy every day and light a candle to him every night.
He made me cry with laughing, he taught me bravery and facing my fear (diving) He was one of the true-est friends a man could ever ask for and his words of friendship and humor still echo in my own verbal dictionary... Snapperhead!
Brian Lynx
Starwood Hotels
Marina Del Rey, CA
I was reading the Dive center mag and found out. I am very sorry to hear about daves passing He was a very nice person and will be missed.
Mark Schmidt
Hawaii Scuba Divers
Honolulu, HI
Hi guys… It’s Lena. I had to add to this wonderful list of memories and messages from all the people who loved Dave, because I am one of them.
I wonder what my life would be today had I not met Dave. I wonder where I would be, what I would be doing today. I know that on February 18, 1995, the day I met Dave, my life changed all for the better. He made life so much fun, safe, and I always felt so loved by him. The past 11 ½ years has been a wonderful 11 ½ years because of Dave.
I always did pretty well at everything I chose to do. But so did Dave. Being just as competitive as he was, I remember when we’d do stuff together, whether it be sports, playing a board game, cooking (well, did really care much about that), anything we did together, I would get mad because he could do everything better than me. Although I’ve always been able to pick up any sport and do it pretty well, it’s hard to compete with a guy who’s an athlete as well. I later learned how to just deal with it and whenever we’d compete in anything with other people, I always made sure we were on the same team.
It’s all good though, because I later learned that there were things I did a little better than Dave. Art for one……drawing was not really his thing……although he could draw a mean stick man from time to time. He tried to write poetry or make it up as we were talking about something. They would always begin, “Roses are red, violets are blue……” and then he would add some wacky lines and then start cracking up, which would make me crack up. Poetry, not his thing. Making me laugh…something he excelled at.
I learned a lot from Dave….including how to keep talking until you get what you want….although no one I know can do that better than he did. I learned to live life and have fun. I learned that family is so important. He was the most influential person in my life and all that I learned, all that I experienced with him, I will carry with me for the rest of my life.
Dave will always be my husband, he will always be Sierra’s daddy, he will always be in my heart. He was my knight in shining armor, my Mr. Right, my soul-mate and my best friend. I will think about him every single day and I know that he’ll be with me for the rest of my life. There is too much love there for it not to be that way. I know he would never leave me, and I know I will meet up with him again someday.
Lena Castles
His Loving Wife
Lena's Poem to Dave:
Dave, you touched the lives of many in a lot of different ways.
You took care of us and made us laugh to get us through our days.
You created a lasting impression on everyone in your life.
Especially on our little girl and on me, your devoted wife.
It was so hard to learn that you were gone and no longer with us.
What you said so often is so very true that life is precious.
I remember our last day and how you made time for me.
You were the best husband and daddy any guy could ever be.
Thank you for your love, support, and making me laugh everyday.
Thank you for our little Sierra who reminds me of you in every way.
You were larger than life on earth and will be for eternity.
Because the way you lived will be with us forever in each memory.
I miss you, Dave and will think of you everyday for the rest of my life.
Until we meet again, my love.
From your soul mate, best friend and eternally your wife.
I will love you always and forever... Lena